7 Maaximum Rules to hired gun pick up and seduction mastery. 100% field tested and fail proof w/ Live in field examples


Rule 1. Never position yourself as just another "customer". For instance, I can't tell you how many countless times a hot hired gun would try to revert back to selling me product when we were engaged in a sexually tense interaction by saying something like


"So are you interested in Product X?"


Remember, it's a woman's job especially one who is in the service industry to try to subordinate you into another helpless puppy of a customer. Never let that happen if you want to cross the boundary from customer to potential lover with her .


You need to immediately grab control of the conversation, like Tom Cruse (Maverick) does of his F-14 in "Top Gun" when he is in the line of enemy fire and turn it towards the direction that is conducive to you closing the deal with her.


Here is a Live in field example


My response. "Hey I gotta question for you, what shirt color do you think works for me on a white suit, violet or blue?".


Do you see how I took a grip of the conversation and multi-threaded to a completely non-sequitur thread which in this case was an opinion opener?


Then you can segue into other emotionally engaging DHVs until you successfully solidify her attraction for you. This should not take more than 5-10 minutes max.


Also note that each time she re-attempts to corner you into the "customer only" space, you prevent that from happening by subtly overlooking what she says, playfully ignoring it and then continue with just demonstrating high survival, emotional and practical value to her so that she sees you as a potential lover and not as another sale!




Rule 2. How to isolate a hired gun so you can take her through the seduction process.


It will often be logistically impossible to do this while she is working but guess what my friends? Every worker is entitled to a break and if you are lucky then your target smokes and will go outside for a smoke break. So you can suggest that you will go about your business but at X hundred hours, you will meet her outside as you want to see what she is like as a person.


You can say something like: "I don't like people that are paid to sport a personality and smile. It has to come genuinely from within. I am keen to get to know you for a bit. So here is what you are going to do. You are going to meet me at entrance Y(if it is a Mall) and then I will join you for a smoke and we can touch base, for a few minutes again-cool?"


Hired Gun: "Okay sure...what time and what exit?"


Remember, you will only encounter such a positive scenario or outcome, if you did your job properly and attracted her or at the very least sparked some level of interest in her for you, while interacting with her in the store.


Also note that it is extremely important to take a woman away from the public eye and carry on the seduction process in a semi-secluded area because you never want to make her feel cheap and slutty for talking to you which is what will happen if you force her to do so, while she is still in her working environment.




Rule 3. If you are at a restaurant like Hooters for instance and one of the Hooters girls comes up to you and says:


"Hi there can I take your order please?"


You can say: "You may have the honor of taking my order but only after you do one thing for me sweets. You know I gotta tell ya', you are very pretty but I have this standard of only being serviced by not only beautiful but super intelligent and worldly women. So first tell me where is the largest bridge in the world located"

(wink or smile at her in a playful fashion of course, so that she understands that you are playful and not trying to demean her in any way)


Note: Reserve this semi-cocky type of opening to the Hooter's girl who is the hottest, has the highest degree of "Male social proof" and has an air of arrogance about her due to her looks. You really need to micro-calibrate this!


If delivered with the right undertone and playful body language, it will cause her to get all giddy and laugh.


Or you can say: "Since I am not really into boobs, but am more of an ass man.--you'll have to work extra hard tonight for me honey okay?"(wink)


Or you can say-"Yes you can, but first did you hear about the super-weird girl in the paper who said "No"?"

She will say: "No!" ( You ass!). OMG I can't believe I fell for that"


You: "It's okay at least you were a great sport about it. I like that. You know I like a woman who is open to trying new things and something tells me you are. True?"


Now what woman in her right mind will say no to that. Most will say that they are, so that they don't come off as hermits or prudes.


You can then say: "I am going to show you something cool when you get back but for now I would like to order some XYZ"


Then when she returns you can use any one of a million DHV's to get her attracted to you


Remember, once again never place your self as the dumb-founded, sexless Hooters Girl drooling puppy, but brand yourself as a potential lover to these women. Got it? Great!


Also note that just because a woman works at Hooters or any other sleazy bar type of environment, it doesn't necessarily mean that she is only "Tits and Ass with legs".


Many of the girls that work there, in fact are either getting a head start in the hospitality industry and eventually want to work for a more classy establishment, while others are just working part time to supplement their income.


Therefore, you want to treat these women as intelligent people who have standards and sprinkle some intelligent dialogue when conversing with them. For instance, teach your waitress things about her facial structure and how it relates to her disposition, engage her in some cool psychological tests ( For example the Trust test), teach her things about pressure points, etc.


For instance, I will say to a waitress:


"You look tired and stressed out" or " I can tell by your facial expressions what your internal mood is" if I really want to create a spike in her curiosity and engage her interest.


She will say: "I've had a long day"


Me: "Okay come here, let me show you how to get rid of that in minutes. Give me your hand! Do you know where your pressure points are? Probably not. Here let me show you".


Note: I actually have knowledge of pressure points and so the names I use for each one in my examples below are actual names of pressure points.


I will then tell her that the point that is found on the largest crease of the inner wrist, in line with the pinky finger is called "Wrist Rite" and then gently massage it. I will simultaneously tell her while I am doing it that it is relieving tension right now and making her feel more calm.

This usually gives most women goosebumps and makes them feel a tingling sensation down their spine!

It is also as you can imagine and excellent way to escalate your touch with a hired gun in this sort of environment.

By the way- I do have knowledge about pressure points, but even if I didn't it, she will still start to feel nice and calm because I am implanting in her sub-conscious mind suggestions that she is. As a result, she will believe it and experience an actual physiological change in her body, for the better.

She will also associate the wonderful new feeling of calm and relaxation to me. Remember any guy that can engage a woman's emotions and also knows how and where to touch her is miles ahead of the competition.


I will then say to her: "I know another area on your inner foot, called "Bubble Spring". This pressure point is located on the bottom of the feet, 2/3 of the distance from the heel to the ball of the foot. Touching it in a certain way immediately removes fatigue. However I only do it to women who have sexy feet, not nasty feet".

See how this sets up a challenge for her now to prove to me that she has nice feet but also a chase dynamic?

I will add to that: "And I can't really see yours with those sneakers you've got on. By the way, you need to get a pair of high heels when you get together with me for a coffee or drink okay? Sneakers to me are Blahh! I love high heels on a woman. In fact they should be branded on every woman's foot".


Hooters girl: Laughs or giggles and is really hot for me at this point!


Furthermore notice how I am also implanting an expectation of a future date with her.


Then each round that she comes back, I will just implant one cool demonstration of value, a cool yet arousing touch movement, segue into qualifying her and then If she jumps through my hoops, I will say:

"Okay you know what you are going to do? You are going to give me your number and I am going to call you in 2 days. Then we are going to get together and shoot the shit. You're going to have a blast hanging out with me. Plus, I am always looking to expand my social circle of cool women-cool?"


Her: "Okay, you can call me at XXX-XXX-XXXX"


The rational here is to remove the concept of a date from her mind, as that is too much pressure for a woman to deal with after just one meeting. It is easier for her to accept your invitation to meet up again if you simply set it up as an opportunity for you both to just hang out and feel each other out. Bottom line- Just take things in incremental chunks and you will score a day 2 with a hired gun 100% of the time.


So here is how I would attract beautiful servers in a restaurant such as Hooters. You would need to calibrate your approach to the venue, social character of the place and consequently the female staff there.




Rule 4. If you go to a mall, then always check outside the entrances because that is where many hot hired guns who smoke spend their time while on break. They are more calm, relaxed, usually smoking, checking their blackberry's or iPhones and are real bored.


They crave the stimulation they get from dealing with people and the social dynamics they encounter at their work place(especially if they are in sales). Consequently, they are open to some excitement even while outside. You can take advantage of this and meet, attract and date many hot hired guns from this outdoor smoking area.


One of the ways to start a conversation is to bust their balls. For instance, I go to this one Mall when I conduct Hired Gun or Mall Game Mastery live in field training programs for clients and outside of the entrance are these seating areas where the women sit on. I will then walk up to a smoking hot hired gun and say.


"Oh no -you didn't sit there did you?( With an over the top Goofy yet surprised look on my face and sporting a very playful attitude)-A bum spilled his urine cup there"

or

"So where is the donation cup next to you?"

(The seating area is a low level concrete piece and looks sort of like something you would find in skid row."

Tease type openers are a very powerful way to Jolt these women's Limbic systems into responding with positive emotion and getting them open to talk to you. You can then transition into a nice conversation and then use that opening to take your target hired gun through the seduction process.




Rule 5. Demonstrate superior knowledge, experience and authority to a hired gun in her own field.


For instance, since I am very knowledgeable about psychology and its application in the "Selling Cycle", I will teach a woman the concept of "Eye Accessing Cues" and how she can use them to determine her customer's dominant representational systems and sell to them more effectively. If you are not sure what eye accessing cues are and how you can use them to read a person, then simply Google them.


Remember, demonstration of authority in any area especially one where a woman is immersed in herself is a surefire way to really convey value to her.


She will most likely find you interesting and attractive and want to get to know you a bit more.




Rule 6. You can walk into an "All Female" clothing store and open/engage a hot hired sales agent there with a funny opinion opener.


For instance:


You: “Hi I am trying to pick up something for my aunt-who is a cougar in the making and I thought I would support her cause”


Hired gun: Laughs!


Then you can simply layer other conversational threads that have DHV tidbits within them and emotionally engaging content, balance the attraction material with some qualifiers, sprinkle some cool, yet non-invasive touch escalation movements like a "hi five" if she shows you the sluttiest outfit for your aunt coupled with telling her that you like her open-mindedness and sense of humor and how because of that she can hang with you- as an example.




Rule 7. Attracting Night club hired guns-The key to picking up bartenders, shooter girls, hostesses or promotional models that work in these flesh driven environments is to sport a super confident attitude, bring out every ounce of charisma that is within your core and then demonstrate massive "social proof" from other women.

In other words, these girls need to see that you are "Social God Supreme" or in other words "McMaax" and that the female patrons of the place are digging you. For instance, if you want to increase your chances at picking up a hot bartender at a posh lounge or nightclub, walk up to the bar with a girl to grab a drink and then use your chick as a vehicle to interest the bartender.


Here is a Live in field example


You: Referencing the bartender- “Hey Josie, this chick is so copying your style-haha!”


Josie the pivot: "OMG, your right Maax-Hey missy where you get your clothes and make up from?"


Bartender: "I get it from Sephora, why?"


You: “Don't worry honey---I roll with girls that have high aesthetic and fashion standards and don't like other women copying their style. She just detected a very similar type of clothing and make up style on you that she usually sports and she doesn't like to see another girl with the same thing. Nothing big! she is awesome and just likes people to be original. I can't stand when two things look the same myself, unless they are a nice set of breasts wink if you know what I mean?"


Bartender: "HaHa! I know me too."


Josie: "Hey Maax-this is a cool one. Perhaps she can hang with us sometime (Looking at the bartender) and in fact I think she also matches your high standards for personality because she is friendly and has a sense of humor, right honey?"


Bartender: "Of course I do".


Me: "Cool! So listen, since you are cool and very friendly I will come back and talk to you in a bit okay. When I do and if you are free, all eyes on me okay baby? I want to find out a bit more about you”


Bartender: "Okay for sure!"


Then leave with your female pivot and rack up some more social proof by engaging other women with your pivot, all within the field of view of the hot female staff there.


Subsequently, when you go back to the original bartender you were speaking to or up to a new one, there will be a much greater chance that she will welcome your advances. Remember, the importance of demonstrating "Pre-Opener Value" before you open women of beauty and quality and especially in demonstrating "social proof" from the female patrons within a social environment before attempting to successfully court a hot hired gun.


Until next time get out there and be a Man


Your friend

McMaax

Hey what up guys !! long time i didn't write anything here !! but school started and i was busy but now i'm back  Well As some of you may know !! i'm currently enrolled in college at the "University of Texas at El Paso", it's a nice university with lots of diversity regardless to people!! .. i also used to party with some of my cousins on California at UCLA so i kinda know a lot about the topic of "college game".

Well everybody says that between 17 and 24 years old it's the best and easiest age to get laid.. you know what?? it's true!!! (i'm not saying that it's hard when you're not between that range of age i'm just saying that it's incredible easy at this age) and it's even easier when you're in college.

Let's talk about the advantages (regarding to women) of college...

1st.. Everybody is concerned about school.
2nd. Big quantities of women at school.
3rd. NOBODY gives a damn!!!
4th. Everybody it's always busy and not concentrated on pick up..

So having said that i can tell you how to run your game on college chicks during the day!!

(later on the week i'll tell you how to pick up college chicks on local bars or college parties but this time lets focus on daygame.)

Day game!

Because in college everybody is busy with homework,work, and classes picking up girls while walking to your classes it's really easy, what i really recommend you is to "hit on every hot girl unapologetically".

While walking you can approach everybody and start a small and short non-personal conversation where you can get her number and then walk away. the chances of getting her number are really big, cause she's not expecting nobody to hit on her and also her mind is filled with other stuff (mostly not sex or guys) but homework or assignments, so take a tour while you have some free time, go to the library and pretend to be studying while looking for cute girls, ask them for a book and make a cool joke and then get her contact info and leave, go to the food court and sit next to a cute woman and tell her you hate to eat by yourself and start talking... most college people eat alone, because their friends's schedules are not always the same. Also unless you are studying engineering (like me =/) you should have a big diversity of women on your classes, make teams with them, talk to them about the homework... what i really recomend everybody is like instead of making your final projects with a bunch of guys, do it with a bunch of girls. Most of the times women are more responsible and they smell good ....

So there you go there are so many possibilities of getting numbers of cute women during the day!!! just approach every hot woman that you see and she won't reject you!! that's the beauty of college day game.

ok that was just to get her phone number then you can start texting her or call her so you can meet later.

who knows if you both have the same free hours you just find a new cute lunch buddy ....

Here's a little tidbit that crosses the line between "outer game" tactics and "inner game" psychology. It's probably most important to guys who are consistently able to get in-depth conversations going with women, but should be relevant to everyone.

A lot of times you'll hear a woman (or even someone in her group) say something you disagree with. It could even be something that is blatantly wrong. Last weekend a woman told me that the U.S. government under Bill Clinton left the U.S. with the largest deficit in its history. Most educated Americans would know that this is probably not true.

But so what?

I'm not part of the U.S. Treasury Department Accuracy Enforcement Committee. I was out to have fun. Yes, she had silly ideas. If she were my girlfriend, I might tease her about this and send her a link to the U.S. Treasury's website. Otherwise, who cares? Let it go, and enjoy the moment.

If you argue with someone over a little point, you are subcommunicating that this is something deeply important to you, that you always have to be right, and that you probably don't have good social intuition.

You'll also lose control of the frame of your interaction with her, and hopefully by now, you realize that if you don't have some control over the frame, you're not likely to get the girl.

Women are often attracted to men with wealth, status, and confidence. In fact, these are three of the eight attraction triggers explained in Magic Bullets (see Chapter 3 (Female Psychology) and Chapter 7).

Now, how does a man with wealth, status, and confidence act? Does he argue with strangers about things he knows to be right? If you met Richard Branson or Brad Pitt at a party and you said that there has never been a man on the moon, do you think they'd care? They'd probably say "oh, that's interesting" and move on. Do they care that you have strange ideas? Practice having that kind of reaction.

Notice, by the way, that the hypothetical Richard Branson or Brad Pitt controls the frame with a response like "oh, that's interesting." It subcommunicates that you are trying to convince them of something. They control the frame, and you are operating within it. What you're talking about is clearly more important to you than it is to them, which subcommunicates that the whole interaction is more important to you than it is to them.

When you meet a woman you don't know, focus on what's important to you, and what you want her to perceive as being important to you. If you are having fun and making a connection, that says one thing about you. If you are arguing with her about some factual trivia, that says something else.

Frame Control is Crucially Important

Even though I'm skating over this pretty quickly, these are crucial issues. In fact, I'd agree with those who have said that this is probably the single most important subject in dating science. If you don't feel completely confident around issues of framing, frame control, and subcommunication, you should make this one of your top priorities for your game. It's a big focus in how we structure our bootcamps now as well.

Change her mood, not her mind

On a related note, you will never seduce a woman with facts and logic. The only reason I was even talking about politics with this person was because I was more interested in the topic (you don’t meet a lot of very conservative right-wing people where I live) than I was in seducing her. That didn't stop me from making out with her later, so that's perhaps not the best example.

Actually, it is, in a way, since it illustrates the theme of changing her mood, not her mind. After a too-intellectual conversation for the venue we were at, I became a bit more interested in her. To get her attracted to me, I led the conversation to an emotional level. Instead of talking about politics, I made her laugh, I teased her, I told fantastic stories and I listened to hers. Then I used the "almost kiss" (one of the four major kiss moves described in Chapter 17 (Kissing) of Magic Bullets). She didn't even let me finish the routine before our lips touched.

Being able to move an intellectual conversation to an emotional one is important. I personally never understood this until a few years ago. I'm a bright guy, and when I was younger, one way I tried to interest women was by showing off my intelligence. This didn't work especially well. Here are some things to keep in mind:

• If you're an intelligent guy, women will perceive this no matter what you do.
• Being "too intelligent" or "book-smart" is actually a turnoff for a significant number of women (not all, probably not even most, but still a lot).
• If you're focused on "proving" your intelligence, it can get in the way of demonstrating some of the eight primary attraction switches.

Yes, many women do look for intelligent men. Those women will find you, whether or not you're explaining Fermat's last theorem.

Wow you post very nice information I really like it and I also want to tell you one tips that women should avoid tight clothes. Wear the right skirt length, too short or too long will be out of proportion. As with petite women keep everything streamlined, wear blouses over trousers so as not to shorten your top half.

Very nice post and it gives a perfect information to impress someone in the first meeting. Don't be afraid or shy to talk to her, start witha  smiling on the face the conversations and be  on the track don't leave the conversation incomplete.

This post is very interesting to read as it highlights the basic point to make first impression effective  and it creates a professional scenario too.

7 Maaximum Rules to hired gun pick up and seduction mastery. 100% field tested and fail proof w/ Live in field examples




Rule 1. Never position yourself as just another "customer". For instance, I can't tell you how many countless times a hot hired gun would try to revert back to selling me product by saying something like


"So are you interested in Product X?"


Remember, it's a woman's job especially one who is in the service industry to try to subordinate you into another helpless puppy of a customer. Never let that happen if you want to cross the boundary from customer to potential lover.

You need to grab the control back of the conversation and turn it towards the direction that is conducive to you closing the deal with her.


Here is an In field example


My response. "Hey I gotta question for you, what shirt color do you think works for me on a white suit, violet or blue?".


Do you see how I took a grip of the conversation and multi-threaded to a completely non-linear, emotionally engaging thread in this case an opinion opener. Then you just segue into other emotionally engaging DHV"s until you have attraction. This should not take more than 5-10 minutes max.

Each time she re-attempts to corner you into the "customer only"  corner, you prevent that from happening by subtly overlooking what she says, ignoring it and then continue with just demonstrating high survival value, emotional and practical.


Bottom line. Make sure that you never all into the trap of the customer if you want to have the slightest chance in hell of attracting,  seducing and dating hired sales girls.


Rule 2. How to isolate a hired gun so you can take her through the seduction process.. Often it will be logistically impossible to do this while she is working but every worker deserves a break and if you are lucky then your target smokes and will go outside for a smoke break. So you can suggest that you will go about your business but at X hundred hours, you will meet her outside as you want to see what she is like as a person.

You can say something like: "I don't like people that are paid to sport a personality and smile, it has to come genuinely from within. I am keen to get to know you for a bit. So here is what you are going to do, you are going to meet me at that entrance(if it is a Mall) and then I will join you for a smoke and we can touch base, cool?"


Remember, if you did your job properly attracting her or at the very least sparking some level of interest while interacting with her in the store then she will be more than happy to oblige you as this way she is out of the of other customers, co workers and her managers. This is important because remember you never want to make a woman feel cheap and slutty for talking to you which is what will happen if you force her to do so, while she is still in her working environment.


Rule 3. If you are at a restaurant like Hooters for instance and one of the Hooters girls comes up to you and says:

"Hi there can I take your order please?"


You can say-"You may have the honor of taking my order only after you do one thing for me sweets. You know I gotta tell ya', you are very pretty but I have this standard of only being serviced by super intelligent and worldly women. So first tell me what is the largest bridge in the world located. I hope I am not being an asshole."


BTW you can think of any cool "Trivial Pursuit" type question to ask but make sure you know the answer to your question.
 
 Now obviously you will say this in a very "Tongue in Cheek" manner and also to the hooter's girl who is the hottest, has the highest degree of "Male social proof" and has an air of arrogance about her due to her looks. This will cause her to get all giddy and laugh.


Or you can say-"Since I am not really into boobs, but am more of an ass man.--you'll have to work extra hard tonight for me honey okay? (wink)


Or you can say-"Yes you can, but first did you hear about the super-retarded, wierd girl in the paper who said "No"?"

She will say "No!" ( You ass!). OMG I can't believe I fell for that"

You can say, I like a woman who is open to trying new things. I am going to show you something cool when you get back but for now I would like to order.... Then when she returns you can use any one of 1000's of DHV's to get her attracted to you.


Remember, once again never place your self as the dumb-founded, love struck Hooters Girl puppy, but brand yourself as a potential lover to these women. Got it? Good !

Also note that just because a woman works at hooters or any other sleazy bar type of environment, it doesn't necessarily mean that she is only Tits and Ass. Many of the girls that work there, in fact are either getting a head start in the hospitality industry and eventually want to work for a more classy establishment, while others are capitalizing on their assets however many are just working  part time to supplement their income, so you want to treat these women as intelligent people who have standards and sprinkle some intelligent dialogue -Teach your waitress things about her facial structure and how it relates to her disposition, engage her in some cool psychological tests ( For example the trust test) teach them things about pressure points, etc.


For instance, I will say to a waitress, "You look tired and stressed out" or " I can tell by your facial expressions what your internal mood is" if I really want to create a spike in her curiosity and engage her interest.


She will say "I've had a long day"


Me: "Okay come here, let me show you how to get rid of that in minutes. Give me your hand! Do you where your pressure points are? Probably not. Here let me show you".


I will then tell her that the point that is found on the largest crease of the inner wrist, in line with the pinky finger is called "Wrist Rite"and just and then gently massage it, and tell her while I am doing it that it is relieving tension right now and making you feel calm.

Now this is in fact true. I do have knowledge about pressure points, but the fact of the matter is that because I am implanting in her sub-conscious mind suggestions that it is, she will believe it and experience a physiological change in her mental state and stress level.


She will also associate the wonderful new feeling of calm and relaxation to me. Remember any guy that can engage a woman's emotions and also knows how and where to touch her is miles ahead of the competition.

Note: An excellent way to establish touch with a woman. I will then say to her:

"I know another area on your inner foot, called "Bubble Spring"This erotic pressure point is located on the bottom of the feet, 2/3 of the distance from the heel to the ball of the foot. It immediately removes fatigue. I only do it to women who have sexy feet, not nasty feet".

See how this sets up a challenge for her now to prove to me that she has nice feet but also a chase dynamic and I can't really see yours with those sneakers you've got on. By the way, you need to get a pair of high heels when if you get together with me for a coffee okay?


Notice, how I am also implanting an expectation of a future date with her.


Then each round that she comes back, just implant one cool demonstration of value, a cool yet arousing touch movement, segue into qualifying her and then If she jumps through your hoops, you can say

Okay you know what you are going to do? You are going to give me your number and I am going to call you in 3 days and we are going to go for coffee. I am always looking to meet new and cool people?


The rational here is to remove the concept of a date or a contract first date to potential hire full time bride type of

as that is too much pressure for a woman. Just take things in incremental chunks and you will score 100% of the time.


So here is an example of how I would attract beautiful servers in a restaurant such as hooters. You would need to calibrate your approach to the venue, socal character of the place and consequently the female staff there.


Rule 4. If you go to a mall, then always check the entrances because that is where many hot hired guns who smoke spend their time while on break. They are more calm, relaxed, smoking and bored. They are used to the stimulation they get from dealing with people, the social dynamics they encounter at their work place, and so they are craving some excitement even while outside. You can take advantage of that and meet many of them there.


One of the ways to start a conversation is to bust their balls. For instance, I go to this one Mall when I conduct
Hired Gun or Mall Game Mastery live in field training programs for clients and outside of the entrance are these
seating areas where the women sit on. I will say.

"Oh no -you just didn't sit there did you-I bum spilled his urine cup there"

or

"So where is the donation cup next to you" ( It looks sort of like a skid row area that these women
sit on and looks like beggars corner"

I will then use humor as a way in and right off the bat it is a very powerful attracting device within our arsenal.



Rule 5. Demonstrate superior knowledge, experience and authority to a hired gun in her own field.


For instance, since I am very knowledgeable about psychology and its application in the "Selling Cycle",  I will teach a woman the concept of "Eye Accessing Cues" and how she can use them to determine her customer's dominant representational systems and sell to them more effectively. If you are not sure with what eye accessing cues are and how you can use them to read a person, then click here..


Remember, demonstration of authority in any area especially one where a woman is immersed in herself is a surefire way to really convey value to her.


She will most likely find you interesting and attractive and want to get to know you a bit more.




Rule 6.You can walk into an "All Female" clothing store and open/engage a hot hired sales agent there with a funny opinion opener.


For instance:


You: “Hi I am trying to pick up something for my aunt-who is a cougar in the making and I thought I would support her cause”


Hired gun: Laughs!


Then you can simply layer other conversational threads that have DHV tidbits within them and emotionally engaging content, balance the attraction material with some qualifiers, sprinkle some cool, yet non-invasive touch escalation movements like a "hi five" if she shows you the sluttiest outfit for your aunt coupled with telling her that you like her open-mindedness and sense of humor and how because of that she can hang with you- as an example.




Rule 7. Attracting Night club hired guns-The only difference in picking up bartenders, shooter girls, hostesses or promotional models that work in these flesh driven environments is to demonstrate massive "social proof" from other women.

In other words, these girls need to see that the female patrons of the place are digging you. For instance, if you want to increase your chances at picking up a hot bartender at a posh lounge or nightclub, walk up to the bar with a girl to grab a drink and then use your chick as a vehicle to interest the bartender.


Here is a Live in field example


You: Referencing the bartender- “Hey Josie, this chick is so copying your style-haha!”


Josie the pivot: "OMG, your right Maax-Hey missy where you get your clothes and make up from?"


Bartender: "I get it from Sephora, why?"


You: “Don't worry honey---I roll with girls that have high aesthetic and fashion standards and don't like other women copying their style. She just detected a very similar type of clothing and make up style on you that she usually sports and she doesn't like to see another girl with the same thing. Nothing big! she is awesome and just likes people to be original. I can't stand when two things look the same, unless they are a nice set of breasts wink:) if you know what I mean?"


Bartendar: "HaHa! I know me too."


Josie: "Hey Maax-this is a cool one. Perhaps she can hang with us sometime (Looking at the bartender) and in fact I think she also matches your high standards for personality because she is friendly and has a sense of humor, right honey?"


Bartender: "Of course I do".


Me: "Cool! So listen, since you are cool and very friendly I will come back and talk to you in a bit okay. When I do and if you are free, all eyes on me okay baby? I want to find out a bit more about you”


Bartender: "Okay for sure!"


Then leave with your female pivot and rack up some more social proof by engaging other women with your pivot, all within the field of view of the hot female staff there.


Subsequently, when you go back to the original bartender you were speaking to or up to a new one, there will be a much greater chance that she will welcome your advances. Remember, the importance of demonstrating Pre Opener Value before you open women of beauty and quality and especially in demonstrating "social proof" from the female patrons within a social environment before attempting to successfully court a hot hired gun.


Until next time get out there and be a Man


Your friend

McMaax
www.maaximumseduction.com

A college student in Texas told me he finally hooked up with the campus "ice queen." A divorced 37 year old got a date with a 24 year old yoga instructor he'd been interested in for months. Another guy sent us "morning after" photos of what appeared to be two women in his bed after a night of clubbing. And so on...

(Ummm, about that. No need to send photos. We know what a morning after looks like. 10 out of 10 for thoughtfulness, but 3 out of 10 for taste...)

What I've also heard a lot of, is "MORE!" MORE attraction secrets. MORE intro-level stuff. MORE news-you-can-use-right-away.

Ask and you shall receive. Check out this killer follow-up from improvisational comedy master and Love Systems expert Big Business:

When I first moved to New York City, I used to read all the time about how women wanted a guy with a good sense of humor. It was in every magazine, every talk show...even my female friends would tell me the exact same thing. Even the Magic Bullets Handbook said so, and Magic Bullets is well-known for contradicting conventional wisdom (and being right).

You'd think that a professional comedian such as myself would have no problem with women then, right? Wrong. After years of dating disappointments I signed up for my Love Systems Bootcamp and got to work building my life the right way.

I noticed instantly some things that I was already doing right (thanks to my improv and standup training), but some other things that I had WAY wrong. I want to talk to you guys about one of those things right now.

Going from funny to sexy. Why is it that so many really funny comedians have so much trouble hooking up with high quality women? How to you go from being the funny guy to the guy she wants to take home?

The answer is to use humor to mask your sexual intent. That means bringing up the topic of sex, but in a funny way.


Advantages to Sexual Framing

You should always be looking for opportunities to bring up the topic of sex with a woman that you are interested in, even though it can be hard to find a way to make it not creepy. When you talk about sex, you subcommunicate that you are someone who is interested in sex, who has had sex before, who is confident about sex. You start to paint the picture that sex is a normal and important part of your life.

You also start to introduce the idea of sex with the woman you're talking to, which is really important, especially if you want same night lays. She'll have a hard time putting you in the friend zone if you've already brought up the idea of hooking up with her.

Not only that, but if done in the right way, simply talking about sex can be physically exciting to her. It is a huge tool in breaking though levels of intimacy.

So how do we do this without sounding like a total creeper? The answer is above. USE HUMOR!

One of the things I've noticed from having done hundreds of approaches is that you can get away with a lot if you are funny. If you've read any of my "On The Fly" articles, you'll see exactly how much you can get away when you are joking around with a woman. Knowing this, you should always start your sexual framing in a way that's funny.


Two Techniques for Funny Sexual Framing

There are literally hundreds of ways to work sex into conversation, but for the moment I'll hit you with two that are super easy.

The first is to hide it in a role play. A role play is putting you and the woman in a fake scenario that she can play along with. For example, pretending that you are breaking up even though you just met:

"I'm totally breaking up with you. I'll come over tomorrow to get my CD's and for the breakup sex."

You can even pretend that you've been married and add all sorts of crazy fake details:

"That's it! You and I are getting a divorce. Just as well. You could never handle me in bed anyways."

Once you have the fake scenario out there, you've got free reign over the kind of material you can make up. Why not make up something sexual?

The second technique has to do with one of my Disqualification types. In my Humor, Improv and Attraction seminar I go deep into Disqualification and go over the 10 different types. One of those types is called Raising Your Value, in which you boast about your positive qualities. You talk about how attractive you are, how cool you are, and most importantly, how sure you are that the woman you are talking to you is attracted to you:

"You're such a sexual predator. I can feel you undressing me with your eyes right now!"

or

"I'd appreciate it if you'd get your mind out of the gutter. I know it's hard because I'm so hot, but just do your best and think unsexy thoughts."

In both of the above techniques, even though it's just a joke, it still breaks through those same levels of intimacy. It has the same effect, even though it's just a joke!

The above tools are a good place to start, but it really is just the tip of the iceberg. Using some of the other techniques I teach in Humor, Improv and Attraction, you can jump off comments like those into some super charged sexual framing!

For example, did you know that these sexual jokes are a perfect opportunity to escalate physically? Just throw it into the joke! Why not have the fake breakup conversation with her sitting on your lap? Why not give her a friendly hug then accuse her of copping a feel? The possibilities are limitless if you're looking in the right places.

Of course they have to be in on the joke for this to work, so make sure you get on the same page with them as soon as possible.

On my blog (http://www.Bigbiznss.com) I go into a few comedy concepts that can help you be funnier with women, like heightening and building the world. Those tools are exactly what these kinds of sexual jokes need, so if you haven't checked it out, make sure you give it a read ASAP. Good luck!

What's up people!! well i wasn't able to post any new articles lately because i didn't have a computer near me but i'm back!!!!

Well this week i'm going to be talking about blind dates!! and well this post is not going to be huge or something that it will take you a lot of time to read!! it's simple and i will try to keep all my following posts like this one!!!

well then having said that i can start talking about how some people fear blind dates because they don't know the guy or girl that they're going out with, and they think that this increases the chances of the famous"everything went wrong"...

well i say that is not necessary truth!!!

my best advices for blind dates are!!!!

1. Don't be nervous..

even though you and we all know you are nervous!! try not to act nervous !!! think on anything that makes you happy or that makes you relax... imagine that you're going out with your budies, what would you do? how would you act?? well do the same!! remember she is probably nervous too,

2. Don't try to make a good impression!

Trying to make a good impression always leads to problem!! i'm not saying that you should be a jerk or worst a weirdo but act as you normally would!! Don't try to impress her by trying to be someone that you aren't.. just BE yourself!! if she likes you for who you are it's awesome if not well it's her problem

3. Take her to a fun date

many guys make the mistake of taking their dates to places such as restaurants or to the park... etc.. well you know what? she's been there before!! and because you don't know her really good yet, taking her to some boring place would be the perfect time for some awkward silence!! we all hate awkward silences!! instead of taking her to the movies or to the restaurant take her to a place where you can do activities such as riding a horse or to swimming or even better play some sports, something she usually wouldn't do on a date!!


and well blind dates are always hard but think on this!! she may be nervous too and you are so what's the problem?? what's the worst thing that could happen??

my best advice??

just have fun!!!

Hey guys, have you ever wondered how the hell to make a woman crave to be touched by you. Here is how.


Here is a routine I use all the time, I have coined "The Future Expectation of Touch"Tactic to make a woman both expect and crave to be touched by me, with 0% resistance.

Here is how to apply it.

Let's say that you have a wonderful interaction with a woman, whereby you know that you have solidified her feelings for you into sexual attraction, not merely attraction,(This is done by getting her to chase you, because a woman will not feel sexual attraction for you nor be open to sleeping with you, until and unless you make her invest in the interaction)you have qualified her, but due to logistical pitfalls or external circumstances you are not able to isolate her to a place to get intimate with her and you are not sure how to escalate your touch with her, what to do?


Here is what you do. First you will set up a time bridge, or a future date with her right then and there so that you can carry on the seduction process but simultaneously implant a future expectation of touch so that she expects it with no resistance from you by engaging in some physically engaging role playing with her which will allow you to touch her right then and there as well.


Here are the steps to do this.



You can say to her.


1. " Okay Gina, you are cool and because of that you can hang out with me. So here is what you are going to do. You are going to give me your number and I am going to call you in a few days."



2. "You will come out with me(You can bring your friends along if you wish and I can bring mine) and we are going to go to a Spanish Club. Then when this song comes on( Think of a hot Salsa number) I am going to take you by the hand just like this ( Softly place your hands on hers, graze them gently and then lock your palm with hers)."

3. "Then I am going to do this. Stand up( Get her to stand up if she is not already standing up). I am going to put my arm around your waist just like this( Actually demonstrate this for her)"


3. "Then we are going to go on the dance floor and rock it baby. Now you need to keep in step with me and dance in rhythm with me okay? If you step on my feet, it's okay however you are only allowed to fumble twice. The third time and I am going to ( Then gently tap her on her behind)"


Most women I say this to actually start to get a bit giddy and laugh!

Remember, to sport a very flirtatious facial expression when saying this.


You can then say.

5. "Now I am very physically expressive when I dance and do get a bit over zealous because I love to Salsa. Is that okay with you or no?

You can add if you wish. "

6. "Also the kind of women I find most compatible with me as dance partners are those that are also comfortable with their own sexuality and physical on the dance floor. So if you are going to get all weird on me and crap my style by being inhibited, then we can end this on a high note and remain good friends" ( wink at her after saying this)

She will say: " No I am fine with this" to prevent herself from being labeled and feeling like a prude.

See what you are doing however? You are not only escalating your touch with her right then and there but also setting up the pretense that you are a physical guy, expressive with your sexuality and like women who are also open and comfortable with theirs. This will convey that you have standards. Furthermore, it will set up a perfectly "okay" future expectation in her mind of being touched by you.


Then when you meet her, she already expects you to be physical and that you will touch her and so the possibility of your physical advances towards her being enthusiastically accepted and not rejected become incredibly high.


McMaax
www.maaximumseduction.com