Need you help on picking up a hottie at a restaurant!

[Matt123]

I like this girl that works at a restaurant but does she like me back? what should i do? The first time i ever saw here i went in to order something and she was at lunch and was sitting down drinking soda, and i stood close to her to fill up my soda and she stared at me. then there was another time in which i kept looking to see if she was working then i saw she was and she stared at me again so i stared at her right back. then i started talking to one of her co-workers about baseball, and her she came up and asked him a question while looking at me. idk but i need help what should i do?

[davidstar]

Stop being a wuss and be the man. Women are not attracted to low-value, beta, wussy behavior like this nor beta traits like low-self esteem, low level of self-confidence, fear of rejection because these traits are not conducive to survival. The traits that are, are known as Alpha and these are the traits that each and every woman is conditioned to respond to sexually. Specifically confidence, dominance and leadership for the very same reason, because they are in this instance conducive to survival.


If I were you...this is what I would do.

While I am talking to her co-worker...if she comes up and starts to talk to him ...I would say..

(With a playful, tongue-and-cheek sort of way and a sly smile)

"Hey wait your turn honey.......geeez how rude"

and then say to the co-worker


"Man...is she always like this....no social etiquette whatsoever"



This will throw her off balance because you are poking fun at her, teasing her and also being an ***-not worshipping her like every Tom, Dick and Harry. Remember women love an ***, or a cocky guy because it is like a challenge to them and there isn't one woman out there that isn't attracted to a man who poses a challenge to them.


Note: They are used to the :


"Oh my god...you are so beautiful...Goddess"


"Can I have your number"


"Here are my balls...do what you want with them....my Queen"


sort of comments from men. In other words, they are used to men who constantly kiss their ***, undeservingly and just give their chips away and remember women are not attracted to this because these behaviours are beta, not Alpha.


On the other hand, challenging a woman, pushing her away then pulling her back in, acting indifferent, rewarding her when she does something good and putting her in her place when she gets out of line, acting as if you are too cool for her, not the traditional other way around will get her all hot and bothered for you because it sub-communicates to her Reptilian brain, the part of her brain responsible for illiciting sexual attraction within her for a member of the opposite sex that you are Alpha and have high-survival value.


Hope this helps brother!

[vlad]

Exactly, stop being at her back and call. Be chilled, confident, dominant with your interactions with her, playful. Tease her, let her see you chat up other women in front of her and sort of ignore her. Then when you attempt to talk to her---she will look at you the way Elaine looked at Marty in Back to the Future ---like a "Dream"


Vlad

[Torontoplayboy]

Elaine and Marty in "Back to the Future"? Now that's just wrong ))))

[Jesse]

She already likes you man, so it's just a matter of talking back, being normal, and using some touching / kino on her.  If you're all hung up on getting her approval, you'll be frozen.  So you have to drop this idea of wanting her to like her, and just flirt.  You can throw in fancy back-flip routines if you like, but it already sounds like a point and shoot case. 

[PUA Hub]

just do what you know you want to do
APPROACH HER AND TALK!

[jhonrider19]

I like this girl that works at a restaurant but does she like me back? what should i do? The first time i ever saw here i went in to order something and she was at lunch and was sitting down drinking soda, and i stood close to her to fill up my soda and she stared at me. then there was another time in which i kept looking to see if she was working then i saw she was and she stared at me again so i stared at her right back. then i started talking to one of her co-workers about baseball, and her she came up and asked him a question while looking at me. idk but i need help what should i do?

I think she likes you that is why she came to the co worker and looked at you. It seems that she is attracted towards you. Now, you must talk to her by any reason. Be confident, flirt her and see her response.

[chipsmith]

Sounds like you missed some golden opportunities to act on her interest... go back there and see if she still gives you the looks, and break the ice.